Confidence-build it as strong as wall of china

Today's post is all about confidence
What is it ,why someone has strong confidence and some people have weak ,what is the benefit of having strong confidence ,most importantly how to build strong confidence.
While we are talking i want to make clear that we are taking about self confidence. So confidence is something that make us feel sure about our self when we come across some test or some thing it is belief that tell us what we can and what we cant right.
Now why some people have strong confidence other don't. It is just because those people believe in them self in difficult condition and had guts to do things and that very thing gave them stronger confidence. Or if we try to find what also had happen their are numerous thing like their surrounding, their friend and family the diffract conditions they face support and many and its true for those who don't have strong conference and basic reason they dont have it because they haven't believe in them after they failed at some thing 3-4 time .and they broke down or they face difficult conditions and they made them like this.
What is the benefit to have strong confidence actually i dont have to tell this to you because you  might Know better but if you posse strong confidence you can do any thing you want .everything every problem is piece of cake for you .
Now the important thing how to build strong  confidence.
Actually this thing can be archived but you have to learn how to maintain it and grow it even stronger .
System to have strong confidence
1.get pen and paper and write about your achievements of 10 years.
2.now try to figure out when you feel nervous or low ,in which conditions you feel low conference.
3.now try to thing any achievements and write them in front of them.
4.while going to bed read it .
5.and after that relax on bed and try to think about your achievement and get those memory play .do this 1-2 week .and hear achievements means some this we did this kind of thing.
Most importantly while doing this
6.do what ever you want at which you have strong   confidence. And try to face or do thing in which you feel low confidence but on small scale like you feel low in public speaking the try to talk in front of 3-4 friends first.
If you follow this you will develop  strong confidence in 2-3 weeks which is far more than you have now .
Now how to maintain it.
Their are some thing you should do.
1.never give up on self.
2.do new things what you want to do.
3.play some out door sport.
4.talk with strangers.
5.take different path.
6.challenge self.
7.read motivational books ,speech and watch motivational movies.
This thing will help you to grow more and more confidence and also maintain it .
Untile then stay happy stay growing