Hiii friends and readers.....
Today i am going to tell you very interesting thing that you have missed and i also had missed when i was finding success.
Actually when someone in his life get failure over and over or a person who get broken after failure or get depressed after something happened that he or she dont wanted to happen .they get obsess with success and they just want to get success any how.
Basically they began to think like this
"If i can archive this /i want to archive this /if i will become this (something important or something they have failed at or something they want to achieve or their goals  ) then i will be happy ".
And we actually follow that path we began to think about it .
I know that i told you in older post that you can achieve any thing you want.but this is different it is about happy ness..
The main problems lie hear in our day today life we make foolish decisions .for example if one of your friend or classmate  got new and latest i phone and he is enjoying it so we make decision that we also want same phone thinking that we will be happy with it ..but most of the time we do t get happy ness.
Another example when ever we are at new place and we go for diner and we see different people eating different food and what we order .we order that food which seems having people happy.and we found out we didnt like it.
So i am making point here is that we might have decided our goals or what is success  which is effect of our surrounding friends and family .
And we need to get clear that what are affected goals ....and it doesnt matter that are affected or not .
What matter most is you enjoy working for your goals or you are happy what your doing  and  still ahead is your goals.
For example1: if you are inspired by some manager with his salary his living style and you have made  goal to become manager in some company but you dont have degree  of mba and you dont find interest doing mba or  in becoming mba .but you think to have mba degree to get that post .so your try to become one of them and failing in mba or after mba in interviews or while working in it .
So your not going to be happy at that manager post because you thought being maneger is success but you found out that you dont like this job or your not happy doing this work .
Example 2: if you like business  people and you have interest in business and you want to work in business and your have a dream or goal to work in some business company  on manager post  and your doing efforts for that to archive and you just know that you should  have mba degree to get that post and you get this and you got that job and your enjoying it  .
So what is tue difference between both examples  ...
Actually we know that the guy in first example will face difficulty in mba, while getting in interviews ,and while working at that post and in this he will not be happy with his job or while doing mba or while interview.
But in second case the guy will also face difficulty at certain  and he will archive it if he try until the  end .but he will enjoy every bit of it in mba in interview and while working ....he is happy...
So you have t choose what is good or better ...working happy in the field you work enjoying to do work or just work their where you get bored.
This is it ....
Find things That you enjoy doing ,while your doing them you feel happyness ,it may not get like working for minutes or hours but at least you should feel happy ness at the end of the day.
And choose you goals or set your goals in that direction ahead ...
So you can success.
This thing will give you a path of happy ness toward greater happy ness and success and happy ness after success.
So until then stay connected stay happy stay growing on the path of success

Today's post is all about confidence
What is it ,why someone has strong confidence and some people have weak ,what is the benefit of having strong confidence ,most importantly how to build strong confidence.
While we are talking i want to make clear that we are taking about self confidence. So confidence is something that make us feel sure about our self when we come across some test or some thing it is belief that tell us what we can and what we cant right.
Now why some people have strong confidence other don't. It is just because those people believe in them self in difficult condition and had guts to do things and that very thing gave them stronger confidence. Or if we try to find what also had happen their are numerous thing like their surrounding, their friend and family the diffract conditions they face support and many and its true for those who don't have strong conference and basic reason they dont have it because they haven't believe in them after they failed at some thing 3-4 time .and they broke down or they face difficult conditions and they made them like this.
What is the benefit to have strong confidence actually i dont have to tell this to you because you  might Know better but if you posse strong confidence you can do any thing you want .everything every problem is piece of cake for you .
Now the important thing how to build strong  confidence.
Actually this thing can be archived but you have to learn how to maintain it and grow it even stronger .
System to have strong confidence
1.get pen and paper and write about your achievements of 10 years.
2.now try to figure out when you feel nervous or low ,in which conditions you feel low conference.
3.now try to thing any achievements and write them in front of them.
4.while going to bed read it .
5.and after that relax on bed and try to think about your achievement and get those memory play .do this 1-2 week .and hear achievements means some this we did this kind of thing.
Most importantly while doing this
6.do what ever you want at which you have strong   confidence. And try to face or do thing in which you feel low confidence but on small scale like you feel low in public speaking the try to talk in front of 3-4 friends first.
If you follow this you will develop  strong confidence in 2-3 weeks which is far more than you have now .
Now how to maintain it.
Their are some thing you should do.
1.never give up on self.
2.do new things what you want to do.
3.play some out door sport.
4.talk with strangers.
5.take different path.
6.challenge self.
7.read motivational books ,speech and watch motivational movies.
This thing will help you to grow more and more confidence and also maintain it .
Untile then stay happy stay growing
 

Hiii Friends...
Today's post is about thanking god.
Many people for praying to god and they ask what they want.but what they forgot that they haven't thanked him to what he given so far .how nice and great your life is now he made you laugh and gave happy ness .
So why we have thank in true  we archive and maintain what we have.for achieving we are thinking what we want.but when we thank god for what we have we actually maintain what we have and make changes to our life.so we keep growing in every way.
So how to  use this and be thankful to God. And be happy in life.
So how to do.
Just keep some think with yourself any think like stone, pendant any think and when ever in day you look at it or touch it start thanking God for good things happened to you or you have or you have to maintain .
You can do this in the time you feel down and when you will do this you will feel good actually great.
So keep doing it and you will be happy ..
Until then stay happy stay growing....

Hiii friends
Today i am going to tell about law of attraction...
So most of people hurt this but they actually dont know what exactly this rule is or law is.how it woke,and most importantly how to use it right way....and gain massive amount
Of success.
What law say:
What ever you really want and you believe that you can achieve ,what ever you think you can get you can get it.
It is simple..
But why people use but don't get what they want..because they don't know how to use it properly.
So how it work :
In this method you have to believe it
And continually thinking about what you want .
Actually scientists have prove that in 1 day near about 60000 though comes in our mind and 1st we step out of home 1500 thoughts strike to use. And what are thoughts actually they are electrical pulse and they generate frequency. So when you think about any thing you send frequency to them .and what this frequency do .they find correct medium and do your work or they create conditions  that you want .ya it seems easy.
But when you know you done thinking and now its going to happen actually we can't know it.until it complete.
So is it working or not .defiantly it work.just you should know how to do it properly .
Now how to do it .and what you have so you can do it
Thing that want
1.goals
2.positive thinking about iT
3.positive emotions for it(positive emotions are those which make you happy)
4.believe in self and on system.
Now how to do it
1.think and write what actually want how you want.
2.think positive always when you have thought about it and when you come across it
3.add emotion to your work which will take their where you want
4. Believe in self while your doing it
Now what is the system
After you done this once
Keep your goal list in front of you ,you can stick it at your work place at your room and read them when you see them.and keep it with your self .and you must stick it to place where you can read it at the morning after you wakeup and at the time of sleep.
Do this for 15 min at the being and end of day means at the morning and at sleeping time visualize your self with completing that goals and  completing them and enjoying then.fantasies them and believe in them that they are completed .
Do this for 1mounth and you will be more happy more exciting more hard Woking and you will see things changing and many good thing will happen .
Note :if you don't get results plz  don't stop doing it of disbelieving it because you might don't know it will be happening in few more days you may have stopped that why you haven't got result.
And i assure you that it work i personally thought this technique to friend and they every time meet me they thanks me for it.
Once more if you want any help to any sectors in your life regarding    self development you can comment on any post and i will tell you the right way...though email..
Until then stay happy and stay growing..

Hiii friends....
Today i am going to tell  you something about how to make our relationship which are very bad .but you want to be great but conditions  are getting worst .
So this is the post for them
So how to change conditions and how to stop fighting every time...
It is simple actually we think this way that person should change he or she should be with me nice or any thing like that and here we make mistake.  So stop changing them and love what they are...
Important question is now is how...
So i got this method which will take your relationship worst to great.
How ,do this
1.take a notebooks and start writing about that person only good thing that you love about them .
2.write this every day and what you like that day...
3.and read this stuff at the night while going  to sleep.
Do it until your relationship get worst to great.
Actually this method is very fast because it changes you only..but time taken by this method varying person to person..
Personally i got satisfactory result in 2 week...
So try and tell me how it works
Until then stay happy stay growing

Hii friends....
Today i am going to tell you the important thing ...and it is very important in life ...
When ever you are in the place where you have to make choice or decided what to do ....if it is difficult and time taking ....
You get trouble while doing it ...and after spending so much time you don't get to right decision...then this post is gonna change your life and if you apply this technique  you will transforms yourself in successful decision maker and at right time....
So how so we take our  decision and when we take them.how should we take decision. And what the best time to take decision.
Basically we make or take decision very impatiently and we do them like they don't matter to us,we normally think of just small benefit or small happy ness and satisfaction. and we don't collected information or we can say don't collect knowledge to get decision....
So when we take decision we don't think of time we think tbis way hmm we have to take decision now and then so why not now...and we make bad decision...
How should you do...

This is the method for making big decisions and after you master it you can use it for making small decisions.
1.think about what you want to decide for yourself and write it down
2.collect information about it for someone experienced or by reading about it.
3.think about how life will change or effect  after you make this decision.in peace.
4.then ask self what to do about it
And when to do.
This is important step because we have our subconscious mind who can go in future or in past to check..so we ask to him.
5.when you are thinking of it you will get your answers . ya it may take sometime while your starting it.
But make sure that you are at peace and your mind is relax .
After you practice it...for 1-2 week you will automatically master it and you will be able to take great decision for self..
And you will get benefit as long term and in short term also...
If sometimes you have to make decisions in pressure or in hurry then take 5 min break and use this method you will get a good decision...
Stay happy stay growing....

 
 

Hiii friends.....
Today i am going to tell you some thing that will change your success rate at your work and at your study or at any thing that you have to do ....
Hmm you might think what it is ....
Its is very important and simple thing..
That is "purpose" .....
If you believe in god like they ancient peoples and now also people believe god gave them birth or send to earth with special purpose....
That's a very Good belief that our parent and society put in us....
And if you don't believe i  god then i tell you my friend that what ever you are want to do you should have purpose in life....

So i think you got my point i am going to tell you all about what is purpose ,how it work ,and most important that how to use it in our life so we will success....
First come what is purpose ,so it is simple it is why..
Hmm lets take this example: if i am taking part in race and i want to win it . so what is my purpose ... It can be to win prize or to make someone proud or for self ,or to check whether i am good or not in this....
Now if i have purpose how its gonna help me, it is also simple i work as energy source to  your want to complete or do thing....
Example will help you to understand better ,let say my purpose to run in race is to make my parent feel proud about me and i wanna show that i am the best ...then what will Happen this purpose (which i have set in my mind) will give me more energy in the for of motivation and inspiration will i am training in fact it will also inspire me to train in the first place...and it will make me do trained hard enough...  And ultimately  i will win ,it can happen that i may not come 1st but my parent feel proud about me in the end.and that will bring me my happy ness and also knowledge and when i will race again i will definitely win.and this attitude will come in me if i have purpose.
So now how to set purpose ...
This is very crucial thing so i suggest try to do this in peace full place where you are happy and try to find time for this when you are in very good mood...and if you unable find them then do it at the time of sleep
1st write your goal on the paper
It is very simple then go one by one to each goal and ask your self why you want to achieve it.and their can be many purpose for single goal
After writing purpose for all goals
Now read it once or twice .and they try to relate them with at leat one of four things
1. Income /Money /finance
2. Helth/fitness
3. Self growth /self happy ness
4.society/parent/family/friends.
And after relating with them write them .
Many people would think why we have to relate with them so it is simple if if relate with atleast  one of them your purpose will be positive ,powerful and it will help you more .
Then self suggest those thing like if i wanna be engineer.
Then i will suggest " i want to become engineer because i wanna be  rich and make my parent and my family proud of me".
It have syntax to say...
"I want to be (your goal) because l want to (your purpose for it)"
At the time of sleeping or when you wakeup in morning .or do when you are at peace.
At the beginning do this with eyes close for 2-3 time a day for 1 week and then 1or 2 time a day...and you will feel great and energetic and motivated for your work ...so form next time will starting new work set a good purpose for it...this will give you great result...
Stay happy stay growing   

Hiii friends ....
Today i am going to tell you how to keep self spirits up,how to be inspired, how to be motivated in the time of trouble or at difficult time we will say it...
While studying many successful people i read and talk about that in which part they are successful the are telling them self that things all the time ,at the trouble at the time of making difficult decision, at the time they are working they say like this i am thinking of it at that time....
But what it actually mean and how it make them motivated and gave inspiration and make them do what they are doing....
So it was simple they are telling them self what they want....right...yes....
But it is self-suggestioning ...what ever they want ,what ever they have to do ,and what is the reason for doing...they are always suggested them self positively....
And  that's why positive self suggestion is key.. to success...

So very important question how to do this...
It is very simple...
Make a goal list what ever you want to achieve....
Like any thing if you are student then put it in your goal i want to top exam....
After you made yours goal list write purpose ...why you want to achieve...if you can't think of any write like for my satisfaction....
After that write positive suggestion for it...
Like i want to top exam and i am going to do it..for myself... 
And after this for 3-4 day try to read them after you wek up and at the time of sleep ...and try to give self suggestion when ever you get free time....after this in week you will automatically start giving to self..and keep doing it.
And i am sure that you will fill difference in 1-2 week...and they will be astonishing...
So bye...stay happy stay growing...

Hiii friends.....
Today i m going to tell you something about personal development ...
This will be help to those who wont be able to make good decisions ...they get confuse or they get trouble to think what is good for them...
It show the title it is about truth ....
So what is it ....
" person should tell to self " this this will help so how to do it ...
And why it is important to do...
Actually what happen when you face bad things like bad result or trouble conditions you tell your self this is happening becouse someone or due to something that went wrong....
And after making so many lie .....or say excuses ....you feel  good...but happen to those after that...they got store in your brain....
And every time you make decision this thoughts come to your mind and may be you make right decision they dont make you reach....
their....
It look like no big trouble ...but it is very big.....it fails us at every place in every aspect  where we have told self lie....so stop doing that and tell only truths to self and addition to that that what you want to do with it in the form of self suggestion .....
Take time to figure out how many truth you have to tell and in case you feel i dont know how many time i told my self lie...then take a look in your life and try to figure out why this is happening they you will get good idea what lie you have told to your self ...
Daily at free time try to think about it and tell every truth   you discover  at night while going to bed for sleeping..... Like self suggestion...and i ensure you you will get great benefits with i  week....
Just try and after some time you get habit of it .....
This is all about it....
Stay connected.....any question you can ask i will delivers ans as soon as possible
....   
Until then stay happy and growing.....

Hiiii friends....
This is whole new technique that might be know to some people ...but those who don't.keep on  reading and have new way to look life....
So you know this or not but their are some practice successful people do at morning after they wakeup or at the time of sleeping or when ever they have free time or at the taught time ...they give  self suggestions like " i m confident,i m good at this,i m greatest...etc. 
What ever it may be as they are not good at or they are conscious about or thing about they feel low about and give them motivation and inspiration....
I find out some thing that why they do so ..
They do to feel better for sure but that not the only change happens their they also develop that thing in them which they are lacking and things happens what they are wanting...and amazing thing is that this actually works.

This self suggesting make them better and better person every time they do this...
But that good and bad like two headed sword ...
Why....it is seen that successful people always suggests positive  thing to  them self and they actually know what exactly want ...
And if you know then its good...actually great  but you haven't until you can archive many things but doing this...
So what you have to do...and how much time it take and most importantly in how much time it take to get great results...
It take hardly 10-15 min at the morning or at the time of sleeping ...or do both time  .you will feel difference in self in 1-2 weeks .and you will see your self as better person ...
What you have to do ..so first make a list of thing that you are not good at ,thing that you fear to do,thing that make you uncomfortable and thing that you want to do....it will take some time to make this list but after it done .
You have to add word "easy" in front of every thing and make positive statement like if you think it is hard to make money...then rewrite it as it is easy to make money....just make sure that every sentence should be what you want...after this and what you dont want to do you can add hard  in front of it and make sentences...
After you done this ...
Add a last line to this i do easy things and ignore hard things...
Keep that papers with you at morning or at the time of sleeping ..first 1-2 day read this then just thing of them at the time you wakeup or at time you sleep ...or do it both time....
You will definitely feel great ....and you will start growing  ....
Have a nice day ..be happy and keep growing...

Hi reader's.....
i am extremely Sorry about no posting new post...
But from now on i am going to post  minimum one post daily about how to change life.
I will also post ,posts on how to grow,how to self growth is done it importance and many more things...
So don't miss it ....it worth reading...
Keep in touch....

What should we do now...?
this question arises every time has we done some things that is winning, losing, done a right thing, done a wrong thing or anything...which may be we do with purpose or without any purpose...question is still there after you have done anything what next....most of the people when they get streaked with this question they do think that they have done something and the best thing that they should do is that stopping for rest liked they have decided to do so while resting.
They normally thing and analyses what they have done ...most of the positive thinkers and the winner...but some time they just go on thing and thing about the next.....they have new idea ...but they just turn that off just by thing it is bad although it is the right ,..But they look this this like they were small...or sometime they think it will create mess or something...
Hamm you also have done this after doing something like you achieved and you stopped and remember what happened the next thing you started working on without any positive intention will every time you lose....to give you satisfaction....

some people have that winner quality who learn from their mistake they start working with double the power and after this small fall they reach their goal ...but some those are unblessed with this ....they get their worst spell...or the learning spell...worst for those who is unable to stand up again ...or who is so depressed and stopped thinking about standing or surviving...he start losing....but for person who wanted to be someone. He learns start learning and tries to come over his depression.....
so why I’m explaining this because friends when you reach at something...think positively what is next ....the next thing which strike in your mind do so you will get the right path .,...like whatever it is .
If you caught up in any problem. You should think it is done what next how to solve this ...how to get over with this.....without thinking of how it happened ...what will happen next....I’m unlucky...this always happen to me ...because the misshapen happening to you are the step to move forward look problem like a learning class...the lesson of life ...after you overcome it thing what I learn form thing ....this is the import for us to learn for self-mistakes.....
Like I say thing the next...fast and appropriate...and get on working again....
This might be the 1st case but there are other cases also.
So many people who think that planning everything is good what you should do after that and all. But it seems a problem (with most of them) they give up or get panic or  unhappy when plan don’t workout as they thought....or plan stuck at middle and they think they can’t leave it now ,and they get fustrated.Yes often this happened with all of us. But while planning thinking of way to complete it (the goal we want to achieve).or how we want to achieve when there is purpose.so you will give up on options which actually give you exit and stay with the way to stay in game. Yes I said that we face problems then what should we do after failing in every way, we thought of, it is simple look for way just chill out or take time to think in alone with clear mind and think about goal and what you have achieved and how was your journey. And you will see that you have faced bigger problem than that and you have survived and won against them. And with that confidence and positivity you will find next great way to achieve your goals...
People you know that you can dream about what you want or do. But after completion of it you get stuck so what should you do while your sucked their hmm just focus on your improvement. Improvise every aspect you want to improvise until you get your next worthy dream to complete...
Because some time you have dream but you are not ready ...so be ready to achieve them....
Happy leaning...happy solving and achieving the new thing...because life is about learning and finding solution and while doing so getting happiness

Hiii friends.....

In our life we do things on the daily basis.it is our rooting .after some days it become habit.or we can say it is how we create habit .this means we all ready know how habits are created.
As we know how to change habit.we know how to change life.actually many of you have heard that what kind of habits you have tell what kind of person you are.

So habits do have importance. So see in your life ,past & present and imagine what kind of feature you want and which habit can take you their and which are stopping you.take time and do this.

After that you have list of wanting to have and to stop .start applying them. Create new habit and stop unwanted habits.this will take some time. But stay focused to change.it is good.

After you made change you will know have good habits in the direction of our goal it is just first step.you have to keep improving them.it us kind of fun.and it give you a strong will and confidence.

But for many time we are not happy with our habit .so we wanted to change them.or we wanting to stop doing them.

And this thing is become sometimes panic.we become angry or we give up on stopping or changing them but we cant do most of the time.

This might be case .but actually we are afraid of change it is human tendency.but actually solution is very simple to this it is as follow.

1.try to build a new habit for old one which you have stop .give some time like 1or 2 weeks practice that work at that particular time.it will build a habit which will break old one and create a good new one.

2.some habit are like bad habit ,we can say alcoholic, lying and many other habit like this can be replaced.or stopped. Just do this.
:
a.stop worrying about your bad habit or we can say stop thinking like what can do if it stay like this,or like how will i manage if i fail...this kind of thoughts.and find a silent plance where no one will disturb you.and think with clear mind that you have to stop this habit.think positive about it.

b. Stop gone to place where you  remember your habits.stop meeting those people who is connected or do have same habit.actually those people can draw to you habit.so for some time stay out.and do other thing which make you happy or keep you busy.

This will make change you...and you will be happy.

Hiii dreamers

In our day today life our everyday come with new problems,difficult conditions,situations, task to complete like that,and in relations we have our family & friends to deal with and we want to make our bond tight and good.and the person in relationship have to look for partner to have our attention .while going on everyday if you are managing all this you will be feeling like tried,and feeling like tensions of some part of life,life like mess up,and many things we get feeling low about them. 

And other side of it we want to move forward in our life, in our Carrier, in our Relation.our goals to which we are trying to reach. Many things we decided to learn ,to enjoy,to do.but we feel i don't have find time for that ,i don't have energy to do,i dont have interest,and many other thing may get you or cached you.

I can tell you why this is happened or happening in your life or will happen someday.but for now i thing we should focused  on  solution for it.(for readers and curious people i will post new post.so don't worry and stay focused on  solution.)

So main question is how to change that ,how to feel happy ,how to feel inspired,how to feel positive ,how to get self motivation,and many good thing which can make difference in life and make us to feel energetic and great.

So this kind of things happened and it can be solved in easy way.

1)find and get a great book like "the magic of  thinking big" or similar kind of book or any bookwhich make you feel  motivated,inspired,learn,and new idea can come in your mind .make sure that all things are necessary .(basically i suggested this because it is available all our world in many languages.  )
   After that what you have to do is very simple while going to sleep and after you wakeup in morning read 5or10or15 pages ( decided number of page to read. On basis of time you get.and stay on it).
After that reading is done think over ideas for 5 min while getting ready. And try to think positive about it and if you like them then try to get those idea in life. This will get you feel much much better and better every day.and in 1or 2 weeks you feel like having control and happy,enjoying every moment of it.

Why read book.some may think.so friends if you search for change they all may say like give positive thoughts ,say positive word about your self,say about your goals,remember them.and many things.actually they all work but main problem we face is we dont feel then at beginning for long.and we lose our believe in that.they may say give suggestion to change your self .but we dont get it or we fail to do so due to tensions of other thing.and many reason.

But book can put all positive thoughts,motivational thoughts,inspirational thoughts in you on daily basis.and it gives  you chance to lean ,new ideas and many good emotions.

After completing book what we should do.hmm repeat it again and repeat it until you learn all.easy.

So get started for forwards.feel great and happy everyday enjoy.

Hiii friends.....
Wel come to my new blog .this blog is specially to develop great success in my readers. To help them to improvise their day today life.its cor those people who want to archive something .to get their goals.for those who believe they can change to better. 

This will also help to regular reader and help them to become more successful and happy.have good relationships. Good thoughts. And they will be able to face each and every problems they are facing...and deal with them effective way..

So wel come on the path of changing to winner ,richer,successful, happy,joyful...every thing good you want to be ..i promise to get you on fast track to  do so.....

lets start the great journey being greatest...
So stay connected stay positive.