Hiii friends and readers.....
Today i am going to tell you very interesting thing that you have missed and i also had missed when i was finding success.
Actually when someone in his life get failure over and over or a person who get broken after failure or get depressed after something happened that he or she dont wanted to happen .they get obsess with success and they just want to get success any how.
Basically they began to think like this
"If i can archive this /i want to archive this /if i will become this (something important or something they have failed at or something they want to achieve or their goals ) then i will be happy ".
And we actually follow that path we began to think about it .
I know that i told you in older post that you can achieve any thing you want.but this is different it is about happy ness..
The main problems lie hear in our day today life we make foolish decisions .for example if one of your friend or classmate got new and latest i phone and he is enjoying it so we make decision that we also want same phone thinking that we will be happy with it ..but most of the time we do t get happy ness.
Another example when ever we are at new place and we go for diner and we see different people eating different food and what we order .we order that food which seems having people happy.and we found out we didnt like it.
So i am making point here is that we might have decided our goals or what is success which is effect of our surrounding friends and family .
And we need to get clear that what are affected goals ....and it doesnt matter that are affected or not .
What matter most is you enjoy working for your goals or you are happy what your doing and still ahead is your goals.
For example1: if you are inspired by some manager with his salary his living style and you have made goal to become manager in some company but you dont have degree of mba and you dont find interest doing mba or in becoming mba .but you think to have mba degree to get that post .so your try to become one of them and failing in mba or after mba in interviews or while working in it .
So your not going to be happy at that manager post because you thought being maneger is success but you found out that you dont like this job or your not happy doing this work .
Example 2: if you like business people and you have interest in business and you want to work in business and your have a dream or goal to work in some business company on manager post and your doing efforts for that to archive and you just know that you should have mba degree to get that post and you get this and you got that job and your enjoying it .
So what is tue difference between both examples ...
Actually we know that the guy in first example will face difficulty in mba, while getting in interviews ,and while working at that post and in this he will not be happy with his job or while doing mba or while interview.
But in second case the guy will also face difficulty at certain and he will archive it if he try until the end .but he will enjoy every bit of it in mba in interview and while working ....he is happy...
So you have t choose what is good or better ...working happy in the field you work enjoying to do work or just work their where you get bored.
This is it ....
Find things That you enjoy doing ,while your doing them you feel happyness ,it may not get like working for minutes or hours but at least you should feel happy ness at the end of the day.
And choose you goals or set your goals in that direction ahead ...
So you can success.
This thing will give you a path of happy ness toward greater happy ness and success and happy ness after success.
So until then stay connected stay happy stay growing on the path of success
Today i am going to tell you very interesting thing that you have missed and i also had missed when i was finding success.
Actually when someone in his life get failure over and over or a person who get broken after failure or get depressed after something happened that he or she dont wanted to happen .they get obsess with success and they just want to get success any how.
Basically they began to think like this
"If i can archive this /i want to archive this /if i will become this (something important or something they have failed at or something they want to achieve or their goals ) then i will be happy ".
And we actually follow that path we began to think about it .
I know that i told you in older post that you can achieve any thing you want.but this is different it is about happy ness..
The main problems lie hear in our day today life we make foolish decisions .for example if one of your friend or classmate got new and latest i phone and he is enjoying it so we make decision that we also want same phone thinking that we will be happy with it ..but most of the time we do t get happy ness.
Another example when ever we are at new place and we go for diner and we see different people eating different food and what we order .we order that food which seems having people happy.and we found out we didnt like it.
So i am making point here is that we might have decided our goals or what is success which is effect of our surrounding friends and family .
And we need to get clear that what are affected goals ....and it doesnt matter that are affected or not .
What matter most is you enjoy working for your goals or you are happy what your doing and still ahead is your goals.
For example1: if you are inspired by some manager with his salary his living style and you have made goal to become manager in some company but you dont have degree of mba and you dont find interest doing mba or in becoming mba .but you think to have mba degree to get that post .so your try to become one of them and failing in mba or after mba in interviews or while working in it .
So your not going to be happy at that manager post because you thought being maneger is success but you found out that you dont like this job or your not happy doing this work .
Example 2: if you like business people and you have interest in business and you want to work in business and your have a dream or goal to work in some business company on manager post and your doing efforts for that to archive and you just know that you should have mba degree to get that post and you get this and you got that job and your enjoying it .
So what is tue difference between both examples ...
Actually we know that the guy in first example will face difficulty in mba, while getting in interviews ,and while working at that post and in this he will not be happy with his job or while doing mba or while interview.
But in second case the guy will also face difficulty at certain and he will archive it if he try until the end .but he will enjoy every bit of it in mba in interview and while working ....he is happy...
So you have t choose what is good or better ...working happy in the field you work enjoying to do work or just work their where you get bored.
This is it ....
Find things That you enjoy doing ,while your doing them you feel happyness ,it may not get like working for minutes or hours but at least you should feel happy ness at the end of the day.
And choose you goals or set your goals in that direction ahead ...
So you can success.
This thing will give you a path of happy ness toward greater happy ness and success and happy ness after success.
So until then stay connected stay happy stay growing on the path of success
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